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Why Foster backs gay marriage

09 Sep, 2011 08:58 AM
WORLD champion axeman David Foster may not be a likely poster boy for gay rights.

However, these days the prominent North-West Tasmanian is just as happy to be championing same-sex marriage as he is woodchopping.

The reason? His daughter Sally, her partner Lily and their daughter Wren, who soon turns one.

Foster will speak on Tuesday in support of same-sex marriage at a forum in Hobart - something he admits would not have happened before Sally sat down with him and his wife Jan four years ago.

"I think she (Sally) didn't want to (come out) earlier, because I was a bit anti-that and maybe she didn't want to upset me," he said.

"She sat my wife and I down and said `I want to tell you something' and that's how we spoke as a family."

The 54-year-old Latrobe resident said his close relationship with Sally had not changed as a result of that conversation, but his views had.

"Everyone has an opinion, but once it's close to home you realise what's important. My daughter is the same daughter I reared and just because her sexual preferences are different from mine doesn't mean a thing," he said.

"She is a nurse, she has a beautiful partner and a child and if they wish to get married, I can't see why they can't."

Foster said his wife's recent health scare had the family reassessing what was important - and counting its blessings.

While some of his mates "that you could call bushies" accepted Sally's news with little fuss, Foster said he had copped flak from others.

He also knew of a woodchopper who, upon learning his daughter was a lesbian, cut off all communication with her and her child.

The Greens already support same-sex marriage and, last month, the Tasmanian ALP voted in favour of law reform.

Tasmanian Labor Senator Carol Brown will be among those backing the same change at the party's national conference.

Her online survey on the issue closes today.

"I believe that there is majority support within our community for same-sex couples to have the right to marry," Senator Brown said.

"A change in the ALP national platform will ensure that we can return to the Parliament in 2012 and fight to fulfil our equality agenda with a change to the Marriage Act."

Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group spokesman Rodney Croome said Mr Foster's story illustrated how Tasmanian attitudes have evolved.

"I'm confident that with supporters like David Foster this reform is inevitable," he said.

Foster hoped that by speaking up he would encourage other parents to be out and proud about their children -no matter what their sexual preference.

"I have a high profile, but that doesn't mean I'll sit on the fence and be quiet just because I might offend somebody," he said.

"Sally is my daughter, and I love her and I'm proud of her. Sometimes you've got to stand up and be heard."

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Foster is right in saying that everyone has an opinion, but i believe his to be biased. He admits himself that that he was anti-gay before his daiughter came out.

Since the dawn of time a man and a women were seen as a legitimate partnership, and the oxford dictionairy defines marraige as "the legal union of a man and woman". I may be narrow minded, and i won't end up on the front of the newspaper for my opinion, but i'm not going to back gay marriage. Have a read of Genesis 19:1-29 and then decide.

Posted by leannak, 9/09/2011 9:29:19 AM, on The Examiner
Legal marriage is not about church and Bible so Genesis 19:1-29 is irrelevant. It is about community and banking/social services and Superannuation etc etc. Call it a legal civil union if you like, but that will require a lot of paper / computer program changes. The legal effect of a "marriage" between two people should be the same, irrespective of gender. Leave the spiritual side to those that get married in churches.
Posted by Richard, 9/09/2011 10:22:18 AM, on The Examiner
Congratulations David Foster. You are a hero in many ways, not the least as a father.

Marriage is entirely a social construct people and the time is here for society to reconstruct it.

Posted by Fatboy, 9/09/2011 10:39:05 AM, on The Examiner
To me, marriage comes down to two people who love each other and want to celebrate that with their friends and family. Gender does not matter.

Although not mentioned in this article, many have said that marriage needs a male and female for children to be raised properly. I believe marriage, and child rearing, comes down to love and care. There are so many heterosexual marriages and families that are not good environments. Gender does not matter.

Also, dictionary definitions are developed from society's views and they evolve over time.

Posted by ChickenChicken, 9/09/2011 10:44:45 AM, on The Examiner
Leannak, thank goodness this country's laws aren't governed by the rules of your particular brand of religion. How exactly are you affected by two people of the same sex getting married?
Posted by Gary, 9/09/2011 10:53:46 AM, on The Examiner
We should not be determining legal matters on the basis of Bronze Age mythologies, leannak. Exodus 35.2 commands that anyone that works on the Sabbath should be put to death - do you propose that this also be adopted as Australian law?
Posted by David N, 9/09/2011 10:54:11 AM, on The Examiner
Gay and Lesbian people should be given equal rights even in marriage. Call marriage some other name if it suits the bigoted unchristian churches but give these people equal rights.


Posted by Liz, 9/09/2011 10:54:26 AM, on The Examiner
'Foster is right in saying that everyone has an opinion, but i believe his to be biased. He admits himself that that he was anti-gay before his daiughter came out.'

Or....he might actually now be a little more educated and realise that gay folks, really, aren't much different to people like you and him Leanna.

You'd probably find yourself a little less 'narrow minded' if you too had a gay child.

As for the bible passage, my favourite bit was when Lot offers up his virgin daughters like property to 'do what you like with them', the incest bit later also, wonderful book.

Bravo David.

Posted by Indeed, 9/09/2011 11:22:47 AM, on The Examiner
Doesn't anyone remember the word LOVE? Let there be love, love one another, I love you etc. - bugger the politics - LOVE IS LOVE - NOT political
Posted by logical lad, 9/09/2011 11:32:05 AM, on The Examiner
Personally, I think that our state has much bigger problems than gay marriages. How about we get our economy and industries under control before we start worrying about who is marrying who.
Posted by Reefy, 9/09/2011 12:08:52 PM, on The Examiner
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