MIRROR, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?
Fess up ladies - we all want to be Snow White.
In the fairyland of our minds, we want to be treated like a princess and told we're beautiful - often.
Crown Princess Mary's whirlwind visit home, and the glimpse of that demure smile and her charming good looks ignited some of that romanticism.
Oh, to be worshipped as a kind of demi-goddess.
Oh, to confidently smile into the lenses of the paparazzi knowing that the photo will be worthy of Vogue.
Back from Lala Land, we gaze into our respective toothpaste-spattered mirrors, ignoring for a moment the demands of family (Mum, where's my lunch? Honey, have you seen my keys? Are you ready yet?).
Nothing fair there.
Being that we are our own worst critic, the reflection evokes a volley of criticism.
And like a delicate bubble floating heavenward, the fairyland pops, vanishes.
That's why Psalm 139:14 is worth holding onto: "I praise (God) because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
The human body is a complex and marvellous contraption.
When we can stand in awe of its intricacies I think we can move a step closer to a healthy self confidence and body image - and cut ourselves some slack in the process.
Where best to start than the miracle of pregnancy.
From the single fertilised cell of a just-conceived human life springs organs, tissues, bodily systems - all calibrating with perfect timing.
Did you know that from just 18 days, an unborn child - or foetus if you like - has a heartbeat?
Consider the immune system.
This army-like operation lays siege to nasties, small and large. It gleans the bad bacteria from the good, mends bones and lacerations, restores bodily balance after the common cold and flu.
Sure, diseases eventually overcome the ageing body but who knows how many times our nervous system has saved us from certain death in the average lifetime.
Moving upstairs, the brain is another thing of wonder.
This lump of grey matter is responsible for a smorgasbord of functions: the ability to learn, to create, to communicate, to remember, to sit, stand, run and walk - to breathe, for goodness sake.
Computers are getting smarter by the minute, but there is still no substitute for the human brain. And animals are yet to demonstrate the same high level of functioning ability.
Clench a fist and contemplate that your hand is capable of the brute force needed to handle a shovel or pummel a punching bag as well as the finer actions of tying shoelaces or
threading a needle.
Right now, my fingers are tapping at top speed on my keyboard, converting thought to letters to words to sentences to paragraphs to this article.
When you stop and truly consider the frame we were born into, it really is amazing.
Instead of gazing into the mirror, lamenting the surface features, we can turn our attention to the fact that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made".
Irrespective of the unrealistic definitions for beauty in popular culture.
This should be the yardstick: "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewellery and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight" (1 Peter 3:3-4).
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